Apart
from the (usually) privileged wives and daughters of administrators and governors, there are many others who had to
suffer considerable hardships in the development of the British Empire.
Books
such as Joanna Trollope’s book Britannia’s Daughters – Women of the British Empire, also
Voices and Echoes – Tales from Colonial Women by
Joan Alexander and Pat Barr’s The Memsahibs – The Women of Victorian India are just a few of the interesting sources in finding out about some
of them.
The
long-suffering missionary wife is perhaps best known and represented
in Mary, the wife of the African explorer David Livingstone, but Eliza Field’s story is another inspiring example.
At
a time when native and “half-caste” people were often seen in European eyes as inferior and to be kept apart socially, Eliza (born in 1804) created a sensation when she took the extraordinary step of marrying
one of them.
One look at the portrait of her future husband and one can
see why. Even allowing for the usual licence taken with most
historical portraiture, he was certainly handsome but it is the
sympathy and dignity reflected in the face that makes him even more attractive.
He
was the Reverend Peter Jones, a half-Welsh half-Ojibwa missionary, whose prosaic English name isn’t a patch on the lilting Ojibwa one
of Kahkewaquonaby - in translation, “Sacred Waving Feathers”.
The
story of their romance and life together is worthy of a novel or HBO
mini-series at least. One can only imagine the June day in 1831 when
the devout Eliza visited friends in Bristol and met this exotic young
man who had been staying with them while touring England to raise
money for the North American Christian missions.
Was
it love at first sight? More than likely as, within months, Peter was
visiting Eliza at her home in Lambeth but, also as might have been
expected, her family and friends were greatly alarmed at such a match and it
was only through her own determination and some fierce lobbying of
his good name by others that the objections of Eliza’s parents were
finally overcome.
Peter
returned to Canada in 1832 but it was to be over a year before the
couple were reunited in New York, where they were married in
September 1833. Their
first home together was in a tiny cabin on the Credit River Mississauga Indian Reserve near Toronto.
Sketch of Credit River by Eliza Jones, c 1833 |
The
marriage had gained some notoriety in the North American newspapers,
and the reaction there was much as had been experienced in England.
Adding to the unwelcome attention, Eliza’s early years were a
struggle both physically and emotionally. She had lived a
comparatively luxurious life before her marriage and now she had to face the realities of tough Canadian winters in a rough, basic cottage on an Indian reserve with its grinding poverty, poor hygiene,
and recalcitrant attitudes towards religious conversion and
“Europeanisation”.
Fevers plagued Eliza constantly and she suffered miscarriages and two still
births and it was only after she had returned to England in 1837 on a
recuperative holiday that her health improved and on her return she
gave birth to the first of her four sons to survive infancy.
In
1841, Peter was sent to Muncey, near to London, Ontario, where they
spent eight years before finally moving into a substantial brick
house called Echo Villa in Brantford in 1851. Peter died there five
years later worn out after a lifetime of service to his people and to his God.
Eliza was an accomplished writer, diarist and water colourist. She also contributed to a magazine under her Ojibwa name of Kecheahgahmequa or, “The Lady from Beyond the Blue Waters”.
Eliza was an accomplished writer, diarist and water colourist. She also contributed to a magazine under her Ojibwa name of Kecheahgahmequa or, “The Lady from Beyond the Blue Waters”.
Two
years after Peter’s death, Eliza married John Carey, a farmer
originally from New York who had once been a school teacher at
Muncey. But apparently the marriage was not a happy one and sources suggest Eliza may have left him as Carey did not have Peter’s
“natural refinement and amiable qualities”.
Follow these links in the Dictionary of Canadian Biography for more detail on Eliza and
Peter and their son, Peter Edmund Jones, who was a Mississauga Ojibwa chief.
Eliza, Scotland, 1845 |